Relationship blogger and psychologist Joro Olumofin has advised Nigerian men not to start with spending money or projecting wealth to any lady they are interested in. Read his piece below.... Based on Psychological principles such as "Primacy rule", & "Learning Theories", the first stimulus you present in an experiment if pleasurable must be repeated or continued if you want to keep your test subjects interests remaining intact. I.e if you start with something; that's what you will be remembered for and also you must continue it because that's the basis Or foundation of your relationship. This being said, a lot of men today are guilty of throwing money, gifts, iPhone, bags, shoes, perfumes first at women before even forming any " intellectual or mind connection" with their love interest. These same men later complain that ladies ask them for money too much, these ladies present them with a reservoir of requests & when t...